Sexual relations with men in situations where it’s a necessity, like prison, are different from being homosexual. It’s such a tradition of London gangsters, the gay thing, what with the Krays… Its also interesting to note that I read what he said years ago and when he responded to what he had said previously his response was insulting and demeaning to the LGBT community but of course due to his looks he was immediately absolved of his statements and attitude.Here’s the Attitude excerpt, via Towleroad back in 2010: I just don’t understand the mentality of this community at times I really don’t. He could have simply said its not an issue for me but instead he acted dumbfounded and as if he had just been insulted which is an insult to gay americans when guys do stuff like that. If a straight man responds that way then that’s their own insecurities regarding that specific subject nothing more and nothing less period. There is a double standard at play here im afraid and its blatantly obvious with some of the responses here. So tell me again how exactly that’s any different then any conservative on television acting automatically offended or irritated when someone brings up the subject of homosexuality anything? Its funny how Kim Davis gets railed as she deserves to for being so bigoted and intolerant yet if guys that look like Tom act OFFENDED if someone asks them a question such as this man did its an automatic OFFENSE or violation. Was the question out of left field? Maybe and though Hardy may not have been insulting in response the fact that guys like him continue to act so OFFENDED when someone asks them that question is a huge turn off I could care less what he does or does not look like period. He’s from a gay publication so he simply asked a question regarding stuff he said in the past maybe he was just asking if he was supportive of the LGBT community which I have never seen proof of to begin with.
What on earth is wrong with asking that question? Good way to negate anything you have to say in the future.
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Hardy gets a pass because he’s an attractive movie star… ok. I’m also extremely surprised Miss Out and Proud herself came in with the first comment in defense of the closet when she’s always lambasting commenters for being “afraid” of being the biggest stereotype this side of the Milky Way. He’s gay, not bi, and he can stay closeted all he wants. Somehow that slips everyone’s minds after these so called straight celebs come out that all their exes were of the opposite sex… so what was in it for them? Huge contracts came with huge paychecks just for being attached to them. It’s pretty common knowledge amongst anyone who’s been around these lil industry morons that there are contracts for celebrity marriages and even “girlfriends”/boyfriends. He’d have been better off saying nothing rather than dipping a toe in the water and doing a 180. I like the guy for the most part, but the more cowardly he acts about his sexuality it really is a huge turn off. Since it’s Miss Thang suddenly it’s offensive to ask and terrible to answer… on a gay site.Īnd the “it doesn’t do it for me anymore”, yeah now that you’re a huge star, and clearly closeted in fear of public scrutiny. If any other celeb had done all this tap dancing and tip toeing around what was seriously an inoffensive question they would’ve been skewered by this site and the commenters. Reading all this stupidity is absolutely dumbfounding. So, what’s the harm in clarifying, at least in his case?Ĭaptain Cam: This. I realize some people are in the closet for various reason, but Tom Hardy was already out as bisexual, or at least says that he experimented when he was younger. Why would I? I am gay, and I have no shame in that.īeing gay, lesbian, or bi, and disclosing that fact should be no more of a big deal than disclosing that someone is… *gasp* straight. I don’t get pissed off if people ask if I’m gay.
So, to fix that, they could just say, “Yeah, I’m bisexual,” or, “Yep, I’m gay.” And then move on to the next question. When celebrities, or anyone, really, deflects and avoid answering the question, they just make getting that answer more scandalous and titillating. And there’s no reason to be ashamed of it. It’s about who you’re attracted to and love. Stop acting like it’s a super private detail about your life.
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You know how to not make sexuality such a taboo subject, worthy of gossip, and a reason for people to try and get you with that “gotcha” moment? Stop acting like the answer to the question is such a big deal.